"....NEWSFLASH.....we are in dire straights.... I was trying everything in my power to get us out of this. I was focusing on trying to make my business successful....and NOW is THE time to be doing that with the holidays & all these fairs. And you wouldn't leave me alone to do that. Maybe you've forgotten....but I left you alone to study and do homework for your degree."
NEWSFLASH!!!! How can anyone with a drinking problem, someone who is flirting with other men, have time to put their children first and focus on making a business successful?!
Does that make sense to you?
If she has time to drink, If she has time to "socialize" with other men, If she has time to hang out with her friends, but she doesn't have time to put her kids to bed and take care of them, and she doesn't have time to spend time with her husband and be committed and devoted to him, well then, "Hello!", "Newsflash!!!", You are NOT focusing on making any business successful unless that business is to focus on making herself feel good at your expense.
All of these things tell me she isn't attracted to you anymore, that's pretty much how wives act towards husbands when the attraction between the two has been killed (and I don't just mean physical attraction, attraction means much more than that).
Don't get me wrong, despite all of her crap behaviors, I'm not letting you off the hook, you helped this situation along with being so submissive, so passive, so wussy like that you killed the attraction with your wife. It took two of you to make this mess.
