"And youre upset at being 2nd? Good luck finding another mother that would put anyone ahead of their children.
"...But you appear to put drinking ahead of me and the kids, you threw up out the car window the other day while we were driving with the kids in the car - please don't tell me you put the kids first when it's obvious after doing this that you put yourself first and rationalize your behaviors afterwards. Stop coming up with excuses that explain everything, excuses don't explain and explanations don't excuse."