When I reminded her of the other two incidents (one of which I lied to her BF) got the following responses:
"thanks for your understanding as a partner"
"hope you find your perfect person"
"you were just looking for an excuse to leave"
My response would have been simple and sweet:
"I've been too understanding as a partner, you seem to have taken too much advantage of that, I was never looking for a perfect person, I'm not perfect myself, no one looks for an excuse to leave however you cheating on me and also having a drinking problem were 2 of many reasons which finally got me to open up my eyes about you and I won't apologize for that."
