But you are correct...I've been a wussy by not saying something to W about her drinking.
I'm glad you admitted this much, but I'm going to take it a step further, you've been a wussy for not saying something about any of your wife's crap behaviors, drinking is just one of many things, I'm sure of that.
You need to do some research on your part, identify your nice guy behaviors, your "wussiness" and how you need to change those behaviors and how doing so will make your situation better for you in the long run, regardless if your successful at improving your marriage or not.
