Cas some times self presevation is the way to go! its a tool i use frequently even though back with H. Before I'd be like a terier with a rat and keep at it again and again and usually getting no where! Honestly i find stepping away a far more effective tool.. he seems to wonder more what im thinking when im quiet than nagging his ears off..

If he is taking advantage he will not pursue contact, he if really wants your company he will find a way to do that..

Sanderika you are in my thoughts, do stay I know Im not around as much as I'd like, work is so busy and they have just banned our internet use so by the time i get home im too tired to use my shiny new laptop!

I am always thinking of you both

Rabbit
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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!