Robx - I'm not responding to any of her text's via TM especially the last 4 that I posted.
I had to talk to her on the phone about an issue with the bank and our house and told her ""I understand you feel that way and I'm sorry you feel that way. I feel that I was not treated as an equal. Your actions beginning with the Cousin jacuzzi incident and culminating with coming home at 1:30AM drunk vomiting in our bed shows complete disrespect towards me and our 20 year relationship and I will not tolerate such behavior. I respect myself to much to continue a relationship, however long, where myself or the relationship is not valued that's all I'm going to say" and I then ended the call.
The only texts I respond to via TM are those pertaining to DD's and finances. I'll let her rant and rave about whatever without responding. But I couldn't let the "sole source of income and I'm making hard for her to earn $" text go without some response.
Besides, YOU told me that I shouldn't be worried it I upset her or not.
No you should NOT be worried if you upset her, in fact, you should get used to calling her on her crap behavior more often, sounds to me like you've allowed her to get away with her crap behavior for years and she doesn't like that you're speaking up now - which is actually your fault, you should have been more vocal from the beginning, it's going to take a lot of work to turn this around.
