from coach's post:

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why would a woman who is so concerned about our finances want to get a bubbie job/sell the house when that will only hurt our financial situation?

can you answer this question for me?

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it's not logic it's how she feels, her feelings can and will change. she doesn't want you to fix her feelings, understand it for what it is - her feelings which are important to her and the key to her heart.

it's not about buying her affection via boobs. it's about making deposits in her love bank with her LL. (yeesh, D4MIL can't believe she's saying that).

you admitted that you didn't do a good job of telling her that she was beautiful. in other words, you weren't making any deposits.

take the focus off the boobs - i know you're a man .. it's hard. but work with me. smile

i gave the example to danf .. "you never take me out to dinner!" is not about spending money at a fancy restaurant. it's about wanting quality time together.