I went to our weekly exercise class with my W. I'm impressed that she went, given she is adjusting to having to work again. She was too tired to go to the dance venue afterwards; I went without her for about an hour. There wasn't any conflict about it.
I had a fair time without her. I got to talk to a male acquaintance, and got to know him a little better. I danced with ladies, so I could practice dances I do well and those that are new this year to me.
I keep running into the young man who I found fondling my W this past April. I get angry every time I see him. It's affecting my enjoyment for the evening. I've decided that I need to at least wish him happiness for his own life, even with the poor judgment he showed that night. I can keep my boundaries of keeping a distance from him and crossing him off my acquaintance list.
She didn't respond to my suggestion about meeting with our financial planner. I'll let it go for now. There will be opportunity to bring this up again at some point.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
