May go from Piecing to The Big D

[loweinsd51]

2x4 time perhaps.

Had to talk to W about an issue with our house and the bank. So I responded to:"You are the sole source of income at the moment...& you just made it harder for me to make $"

With:
"I understand you feel that way and I'm sorry you feel that way. I feel that I was not treated as an equal. Your actions beginning with the Cousin jacuzzi incident and culminating with coming home at 1:30AM drunk vomiting in our bed shows complete disrespect towards me and our 20 year relationship and I will not tolerate such behavior. I respect myself to much to continue a relationship, however long, where myself or the relationship is not valued that's all I'm going to say" and I then ended the call.

Her immediate response:
Sorry you feel that way. But you have everything wrong.

I didn't respond...she then followed up with:
"We've already been over the cousin issue....but I'll remind you that you were glued to me the whole time & didn't give me a moment alone.... we ALL had too much to drink and we both didn't do everything right....I thought we were beyond that. As far as last week....I had a glass and a half of brandy (with ice) and one glass of wine....and NO DINNER. I worked nonstop that day to get ready for the networking event along with watching kids...mine and others. Kathy had been gone for 10 days and she needed me as a friend that night. I asked you if you were ok with me going over there and you said yes....but it looks like you actually were not...I CAN'T WIN!!! We didn't even start drinking until 10....so 1:30 is really not an issue.... And stop calling me drunk! How was I to know I cant handle brandy?! Also combined with no dinner...I'm sure that played into it....and I probably shouldn't have mixed it with wine. Well I'm only human...I make mistakes....if this is the reason you left....it's pretty lame..."

have to completely disagree with the glued to me comment...the only time I sat next to her was earlier in the day when we had our feet in the jacuzzi.

Now, I'm not going to tell her that she can't go see her friend but the mere fact that she is asking me should of perhaps clued me in that she wants me to call her on her CB or she knows what she is doing is wrong.

I have yet to respond to either TM.

Thoughts?