BA-No agreement yet. Not one word about it since we went over the final changes. Could be that it's close to the end of the year & he wants to stall so we file M'd jointly. Only problem with that is we have a court date in Dec. that the judge called "the last," or she will dismiss the case.
Kat-rather than things in my life sorting out, the opposite happened. My S18 is full blown out of control in every self-destructive way, so I've had to drop the rope with him also. My efforts to help him had the predictable result of making the situation worse. An addict can't be helped unless/until they make that decision. He has lost his job & is failing all his college classes.
This is hands down the most difficult time in my life...S18 was just here, pounding on the glass door, raging. Left before police could get here. Friend that's known him all his life was here, couldn't believe it if hadn't witnessed it himself.
