Having a hard time finding my thread. Site or computer issues - don't know.
Well, it finally took me this long to actually listen to the advice - detach, etc. etc. GAL, etc. etc. It took me finding out about OM to 'let go.' W tried to say that my suffocating, pursuing her after she left actually drove her to someone else. Whatever. Also said that she thought I brought someone around D3 (never happened) so she felt it ok. Which I'm the faithful one. Whatever.
I gave her a piece of my mind what I thought about the situation and the OM yesterday. As I left her I told her 'Good-Bye, I need to let you go don't want to see you again. It is too upsetting and painful for me.' I think this is the Last-Last Resort Technique. Read it after I said it.
After I left she text me a few times (saying sorry, I didn't mean to hurt you, etc. etc. I just needed to take control again b/c I lost control, etc. etc. No one will replace you as D3's daddy and noone will replace as my husband, blah, blah, blah.) and also called me. I wouldn't answer, respond - nothing.
Got physically sick last night at the thought of everything. Who was it that posted I would be back posting? Yep, therapy.
