Change is in the air........

[MHL]

I replied:
"Your boundary shouldn’t be a problem. I’m honestly not sure what you’re referring to when you used the phrase “conjecturing on (your) future M possibilities”. To my recollection, the M word didn’t come up at all. Don’t worry, be happy. See you at 6pm then!"

I suppose it was bad DB to disagree with his memory...and then "don't worry, be happy".....I meant it to be funny but after reading it again it sounds a bit dismissive.

Okay, I think you got this but just in case you didn't....don't contradict what he just said about something you are doing that he doesn't like.

Actually, I am rather proud of him for sharing with you his feelings. I wonder if he read "No more Mr. Nice Guy"???

This is good that he is communicating with you openly, not sure if he is angry just doesn't care for the analysis of his R skills, who would??? He is continuing to see you by playing tonight and it is a good bet that he is not telling GF#2.

General question: if a man is angry at a woman, are there any no-no's where flirting is concerned?

Pointers about tonight,

Don't try to guess what he is feeling ie. do not mention the word anger nor apologize for making him feel one way or the other.

Don't mention the book thing anymore, unless he brings it up. Really at this point there is someone in his life that is suspect, finding that piece of info out is not going to make him run back to you.

Have fun with him, forget about everything else.

What are his Love Languages, are you speaking and/or doing the things he would respond to the most?

As far as No-No's on flirting.....well we are guys, pretty simple creatures. Girls flirting with us = good every time.

Good Luck Tonight.