6 months into dating it sounds just like a business proposition. 13 years later it's completely different. You're in good control of your sitch. There are ways to find out.
That's how it sounded to me, but she also said it jokingly.
I was not wise enough to mind read her the right way.
Oh well. If I ever get out of this mess sucessfully, I will seriously consider it though.
Maybe she needs to know that you are willing to commit before she will be willing to commit.
