Pookie, surely the topic came up in the past. Knowing what you now know about how cat's talk, what has she said?
The topic cam up 13 years ago after dating for about 6 months. She said that if we got married she will get $10K from her grandmother.
I did not know how to read that.
6 months into dating it sounds just like a business proposition. 13 years later it's completely different. You're in good control of your sitch. There are ways to find out.
