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Originally Posted By: TimeHeals

The point is... are you sure she doesn't want to be married?


No, absolutely not sure of that.


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The ring (tag) is a sign of who she belongs to, where her home is, who to call when she is in need, that this isn't a stray but a cat who is loved and cared for. Because if she's out and about what does the signal of no tag send? It matters.


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Originally Posted By: Coach
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My woman hates being vunerable.


To let go and be vunerable she needs to feel secure. I bet she's dying to let go because it's thrilling and exciting. Otherwise, what is it you are looking for then if she can't be vunerable and intimate?

These aren't 2x4s BTW. Just challenging your beliefs.


I don't have any particular beliefs.

So should I just text her and get it over with or should I order a Mariachi band?

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Great. My wife took off her rings last week...

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Originally Posted By: pookie69
Originally Posted By: TimeHeals

The point is... are you sure she doesn't want to be married?


No, absolutely not sure of that.



There is a reason they call it taking the plunge.


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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Great. My wife took off her rings last week...


This isn't about you, you Pinhead! Now buzz off! grin


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Originally Posted By: Coach
The ring (tag) is a sign of who she belongs to, where her home is, who to call when she is in need, that this isn't a stray but a cat who is loved and cared for. Because if she's out and about what does the signal of no tag send? It matters.


I agree totally. I can't just sneak up on her while she's sleeping with a hot iron marker.


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Originally Posted By: Coach
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Great. My wife took off her rings last week...


This isn't about you, you Pinhead! Now buzz off! grin


Pookie, surely the topic came up in the past. Knowing what you now know about how cat's talk, what has she said?

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Originally Posted By: Db9
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Originally Posted By: TimeHeals

The point is... are you sure she doesn't want to be married?


No, absolutely not sure of that.



There is a reason they call it taking the plunge.


Ahem, I am still here under all the linemen.

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
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Great. My wife took off her rings last week...


This isn't about you, you Pinhead! Now buzz off! grin


Pookie, surely the topic came up in the past. Knowing what you now know about how cat's talk, what has she said?


The topic cam up 13 years ago after dating for about 6 months. She said that if we got married she will get $10K from her grandmother.

I did not know how to read that. frown


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