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Originally Posted By: pookie69
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When are you going to ask her to marry you?


Geez. I like my head between my shoulders. Are you serious?

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Yes, it's something to think about. It matters to her.


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Originally Posted By: Coach
Originally Posted By: pookie69
Originally Posted By: Coach
When are you going to ask her to marry you?


Geez. I like my head between my shoulders. Are you serious?

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Yes, it's something to think about. It matters to her.


That's a heck of a long distance mind reading. Did she tell you that? I know I have been suspicious about her lurking here.

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Do your dogs have tags? Why does it matter?


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I once dated a woman for a year who said she never wanted to get married. I was happy with that.

Three months after she broke it off, she married somebody else. She is divorced now, so the rebound didn't work out, but... it makes ya go hmmmm... doesn't it?


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Originally Posted By: Coach
Do your dogs have tags? Why does it matter?


My dogs have tags so when they run away they can be returned. I am not sure I can apply this analogy.

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Seriously, I could not think of a crazier time to kneel on my sword.


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I once dated a woman for a year who said she never wanted to get married. I was happy with that.

Three months after she broke it off, she married somebody else. She is divorced now, so the rebound didn't work out, but... it makes ya go hmmmm... doesn't it?


Maybe she did not want to marry YOU.

Or is Coach's question/statement thing applicable here?


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Originally Posted By: pookie69
Originally Posted By: Coach
Do your dogs have tags? Why does it matter?


My dogs have tags so when they run away they can be returned. I am not sure I can apply this analogy.

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Seriously, I could not think of a crazier time to kneel on my sword.



They can be returned where? The tag is a sign of what?


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Maybe she did not want to marry YOU.


Looking back, I am pretty sure she did.

BTW, I am glad I didn't however. It was only a year for goodness' sake, and look at the next poor guy grin

The point is... are you sure she doesn't want to be married?


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My woman hates being vunerable.


To let go and be vunerable she needs to feel secure. I bet she's dying to let go because it's thrilling and exciting. Otherwise, what is it you are looking for then if she can't be vunerable and intimate?

These aren't 2x4s BTW. Just challenging your beliefs.


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Originally Posted By: Coach
Originally Posted By: pookie69
Originally Posted By: Coach
Do your dogs have tags? Why does it matter?


My dogs have tags so when they run away they can be returned. I am not sure I can apply this analogy.

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Seriously, I could not think of a crazier time to kneel on my sword.



They can be returned where? The tag is a sign of what?


What if the cat does not want to be owned? I am still teaching her where the litter box is.

My thread must be getting boring. So I should run out spend a sh!tload on a ring and bring this story to an abrupt end. We either will live happily ever after or I will be having a permanent diamond shape scar under my left eye.

I need to watch more Cary Grant movies. Oihhh. frown


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