Divorcebusting.com  |  Contact      
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 4 of 15 1 2 3 4 5 6 14 15
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 2,246
P
Member
Offline
Member
P
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 2,246
Originally Posted By: Coach
Quote:
Intimacy and affection. She has always been a little short in that department.


Change your perspective. What is it she needs to really feel comfortable, loved, relaxed, free and vunerable?


Damn Coach, that's good...

Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
P
Member
OP Offline
Member
P
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
Pin

You are more than welcome to translate this one.

My head hurts.


Enjoy the Silence
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 5,299
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 5,299
try the catnip she wants and needs


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
P
Member
OP Offline
Member
P
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
Originally Posted By: Coach
try the catnip she wants and needs


Something wrong with my stash. She's got 4 out of 5 already.


Enjoy the Silence
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 5,299
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 5,299
Originally Posted By: pookie69
Originally Posted By: Coach
try the catnip she wants and needs


Something wrong with my stash. She's got 4 out of 5 already.



Quote:
How will you know when you achieve it?

When the master bedroom door gets left open.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
P
Member
OP Offline
Member
P
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
Maybe I just remove the door.


grin

My woman hates being vunerable.


Enjoy the Silence
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
P
Member
OP Offline
Member
P
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
W has been home before me for two weeks now. No more drinking with her buddies or enything like that for a long time.

Yesterday afternoon she texted me "I would like to go out for awhile tonight. I hope that it's okay with you."

Of course it was okay with me and a said that.

Later she called to say that she was on her way. I said "Be careful driving." She replied "I did not drink too much." I said "I did not assume that, just be careful that's all."

I did not ask who she was with. She will tell me if she wants to.

The point here is that my work of calling out her CB in a friendly manner has accomplished many things.

It worked.


Enjoy the Silence
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 5,299
C
Member
Offline
Member
C
Joined: Jul 2008
Posts: 5,299
When are you going to ask her to marry you?


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Joined: Feb 2010
Posts: 988
I
Member
Offline
Member
I
Joined: Feb 2010
Posts: 988
Quote:
The point here is that my work of calling out her CB in a friendly manner has accomplished many things.



It really does work! I don't know if I will save my M or not, but I have saved my self-respect. And that feels great!

Your sitch seems to be improving by the day. Keep it up! I like reading the good news.


Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1933641#Post1933641
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
P
Member
OP Offline
Member
P
Joined: Jul 2010
Posts: 1,492
Originally Posted By: Coach
When are you going to ask her to marry you?


Geez. I like my head between my shoulders. Are you serious?

crazy


Enjoy the Silence
Page 4 of 15 1 2 3 4 5 6 14 15

Moderated by  Cadet, DnJ, job, Michele Weiner-Davis 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Michele Weiner-Davis Training Corp. 1996-2025. All rights reserved.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.7.5