Link to part 1:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2086167&page=1


Ok, a couple of questions. First, I get not initiating contact with W (except for kid related item). That part is easy. But if she initiates contact with me, where is the line between detaching and not responding and being there if she's taking baby steps? In other words, if I have no contact how to I detect and then respond (appropriately) to baby steps?

Second, since I moved out, W is so very angry. She's up and down. Sometimes nice and sometimes venomous. I've been reading the thread about anger and get that anger is better than detached, but any other thoughts? It's bizarre, she was never like that "in real life".


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11