The more I have detached the more my wife seems to call and come by my house. She is trying to find work and has asked me to help her find a job. I gave her the name of a job lead the other day and she is supposed to have an interview. She seems nicer and now will wait and hear me speak when she has said something. There seems to be less anger on her part. I still remain detached and she called me at 530 am today to talk in general. I am not reading anything into this and will stay the course. Bobby O