As suspected he is (mostly) leaving me alone. Has texted a few times about the kids, with questions that he could find out if he were inclined (what time do the get out of school?) but I'm not reading into it. It is easier to ask the person who knows rather than find the number, call, talk to someone, etc. So he hasn't gone and left me completely alone (which will likely never be possible, with kids and all) but he's doing as i thought. I know its only been about 4 days but I feel better. I'm getting back to the angry stage rather than the hurt stage, which makes my dimness a lot easier. Only problem it causes is how badly i want to tell him about all the nasty stuff he did, but he knows, I know he knows, and those talks never make me feel better. But sometimes I just want to rip on him!

So, so far so good. For me anyway!


Me 30 H 29
DC 9, 7, 2
M 4 years, T 6 years
ILYBINILWY Bomb: 8/8/10
He doesn't want to work, I'm slowly getting there too
Physically separating end of September