<<Then yesterday he came over and we walked around trick or treating for 90 minutes with the kids. Yeah, that's a lot of Dan for one week.>>
I don't think I did anything for 90 minutes with the X under any circumstance.....married, seperated let alone divorced........
I am an old follower of these boards and BBJ. I understand it is difficult but detachment and moving on go hand in hand. This type of proximity does nothing to accelerate the process. Therefore, it is no wonder that I read that you wish you had someone but nothing serious. You are not ready to let anyone get closeto you yet BBJ.....
All our exes are still in our systems to varying degrees.....your guy is firmly entrenched in there and as long as he stays there, you will spin your wheels. Not judging you at all....you still want Dan in your life.....it is obvious to all who continue to read your posts.
I do drive bys here all the time....and I agree with John
BBJ...you need to get a divorce...you may have done that legally..but you never ever did it emotionally....
I co-parent with Kim great....we can talk about Caleigh and have civil conversations..but..we don't do holidays, we don't share time..we don't trick or treat, ballgame or school together..
