So... will you look back and wonder why you fussed so much?
I don't consider this "fussing." I consider it actually pretty normal to find it annoying to comply w/ everything the other party asks for, when the decision is theirs, yet they don't comply w/ anything you've requested. I think someone who could laugh and drink champagne at the situation might have a few screws loose, honestly.
I hear what you are saying...to just go with the flow...but to act as if it's something fun/happy or something to be enjoyed is not the truth of the matter.
