I guess I have to keep in mind all the go get em' type guys that I am competing with!
Yup . Women with a very strong feminine energy will certainly respond to the go get 'em guys . Thing is, all you have to do is ask yourself what a confident guy would do and do it. Take risks, be prepared for disappointment/rejection, think of it all as an experiment, and see for yourself if it works for you to act confident. My guess is that you'll be pleasantly surprised at the rewards. I have seen guys totally transform and become 10x more attractive (not visually) after becoming more confident. It's a fake it until you make it kind of deal.
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