About giving your W the book. There are some parts of it that I do not know if they would appeal to a ld feminist. Have a good read through it first from this point of view. There are parts where it talks about differences between men and women that your W might not accept. If you want a third party opinion you might be better to ask her to see a counsellor with you. What is she like about counselling? She might go if you presented it as being more your problem.
