I dont know how to change the ante. What do you suggest? it is difficult for me to forgive because of what he is doing to my son and me. My son is scarred because of this and it makes me very angry and sad. ow is living with him now at mother's house this makes it more difficult to get him back.H is over there playing house with her. I find it difficult to have peace of mind and that really bothers me, I am always obsessing about this situation and worrying about the future.
