Funny I was asked by a divorced woman last night if I would reconcile. I said if the right changes were made, yes I would. She seemed surprised and said she never changed her mind once her D went through. However, she had no kids and was only married a couple of years; now she has been married almost ten years to one of my second cousins and they have two kids. So, that makes a difference in the answer, I think. Although I found it interesting that she said he has crossed paths with her ex only a handful of times in ten years for weddings/funerals of mutual friends. And she said every time she makes sure she gets a new dress and looks gooood. Interesting...
