I disagree, mza. Gr8's "dealbreakers" should be a very short list -- his "N.U.T.S.", so to speak -- but whatever they are (and only he can say what are TRULY his Non-negotiable Undeniable TruthS), I think they should be communicated up front.

The way Coach has it phrased, I think, is fine?

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)