we LBSes have to stick together. maybe you'll help me understand my h. oh wait, he's an alien .. you're not. is there a male alien on the boards?
i understand that it might be too late but just thought i'd throw that example out.
i'm not a DB-er. i'm an excuse-maker and a catastroph-ist who still lives in fear. i can help someone else get rid of their 'fear' but i can't get out of my own. i see hope in other sitchs (you, khudoo, lostnhurt) but i don't see hope in my own.
i'm still trying to wrap my head around a lot of the advice. given here. i am learning bit by bit .. i started reading robx's thread after you had mentioned it. and my goodness .. i saw myself in his posts. you can't be a doormat forever .. and at some point, your self-worth outweighs your situation. i actually got teary-eyed reading that part. to see someone have their self-esteem ripped to shreds on a daily basis is very sad.
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I just wish I would see some progress from the other side.