Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

I wil not tell her not to see her friend again.
I will definitely let my W decide who she wants in her life.

Coach is this a statement I should say to W

?"I don't think it's wise to have friends in our lives that don't support marriage and have our best interests at heart. I think trust is important for us going forward and some people I don't trust around my wife. How do you feel about that?"

I was thinking along the lines of:

"Since you have been gone I feel your friend XXX had been a bad influence on you. I also do not agree with her life style. I think she is very arrogant and controlling. She needs to be the center of the attention all the time. I understand friendship is important to you as it is for me. If you decide to maintain a friendship with xxx then I can't have you in my life, it's your decision"