I want them to know that I did not give up on the marriage if they may have the impression that I did. I don't know what sort of reason he has given them for ending our marriage.

I know he will not admit to the A where his parents are concerned.

I feel that with the D filed and us not communicating, hope for R is getting very slim... so, I keep struggling with when, how much to say etc. I am very scared to do this I will admit. I would be crossing a line that can not be uncrossed.

(Formerly blgp)
Me-35
H-33
Married 4 yrs
Together 9 yrs
"Bomb" 8/1/10
Separated 8/6/10
D filed 10/21/10, on hold til 1/11

"If you want to hear God laugh, tell Him about your life plans."