LOL, so far so good. Went over her place for my b-day and it was great. I sense nothing being hidden, very sincere and insists we get a key for her place Thurs night. She wants us to have make and have meals togther at her place and she had me stay. Great b-day.
Now my biggest issue is myself. As I tried to sleep thoughts about things pop in my head. Tomorrow she see's Co and next time we will go together. I am on call next W/E and told her she can do what she wants with her new friends or cousin and she insisted she would rather spend non-party time with me. M-today 49 W-38 M-9yrs no kids Bomb-labor day W/E Moved out 1 week later 9 weeks things are looking up
Hey Stars, I'm gonna give her this Thurs, as it is after her Co session and we should talk about it but next Thurs its trivia night and I will see how she reacts.
plans galore, she wants me to buy a mini shaving cream to keep there, razor, already gave me stuff to bring back to the house. I am on call next weekend so I told her she does not have to hang out with me, she can do what she wants and she said no, I don't need to go out I can just do things with you and you can work from the apt. I'm nervous but I also see a lot of good signs. Saw her S tonite to pick something up for her since he lives close to us. We were talking about his S's b-day (he turning 4) and she invited me to his party at chucky cheese. I said I hope this is not wierd for you and he said what was weird was us not being together. She also wants to spend Thanksgiving together. God works in strange ways... M-49 W-38 M-9 yrs No kids Bomb labor day W/E Om confirmed Me telling her I want D 2 weeks ago 9 weeks later reconcile??
I think its time to go to piecing and keeping up the PMA, while rebuilding the trust we lost. I thank you all for your support over the past 9 weeks. My 1st marriage I fell on my face and did not listen to the folks here. I begged, I pleaded, I blamed, I used the kids as the reason we should have stayed together. I learned alot. We have alot of work to do and she is willing and open. Carry on, and pray.