That depends....depends on what she says, and how strongly she says it. You've read it before, you WILL KNOW if your W is serious about reconcilling. If she isn't, what good are boundaries?
If you get wishy-washy from her, maybe you let her know what the boundaries would be if you were to move forward. And the first boundary would then be a committment from her to work on things... Something along the lines, if WE decide to head down the path to reconcilliation, at a minimum, here are a few things I expect from this:
M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11