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Db9 #2100104 11/03/10 02:50 PM
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Has she contacted you lately?


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Nope neither one of us has since the beginning of last week. We sent some texts back and forth and I left her texting me last at that time. Since then I went out of town and kept myself busy.


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Db9 #2100120 11/03/10 03:10 PM
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What was the topic of the texts?


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Those were the ones that started off with a little flirting, then she asked who I was going out of town with and I asked why she wanted to know. The last text from her ended with her saying that were friends and that we shouldn't of talked about the few things we did. She said it wasn't a "friend" kind of a convo. When I asked why she wanted to know who I was going with she said just asking sorry. I did ask her why she was pissed b/c the first part of the convo was lite and fine until I asked why she wanted to know and that's when she said she wasn't pissed just that we shouldn't talk about certain things. I just left it at that.


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Db9 #2100130 11/03/10 03:25 PM
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So the cat is still up in a tree?


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You are correct.


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Db9 #2100450 11/03/10 08:11 PM
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So I should absolutely make no contact no matter how light it is pookie. If the cat is in the tree do you never pull out a shiny new toy to get it to come Dow for any reason?


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Db9 #2100484 11/03/10 08:46 PM
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Originally Posted By: Db9
So I should absolutely make no contact no matter how light it is pookie. If the cat is in the tree do you never pull out a shiny new toy to get it to come Dow for any reason?


I'm exhausted from getting beaten up and spinning like a pinhead on O'Reilly show but let me try.

You scared the cat up to the tree. You stand under it and bark. The cat is scared and won't come down. You know that she needs to come down and eat her chow eventually.

What is the best strategy for you?


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You put the food down and walk away. I know I know, this is what happens when your stuck on a job site with absolutely nothing to do. You start second guessing yourself. I'm sure if there was another way you would have let me in on it.

When u ask what's the best strategy for me I just assume it's doing what I'm doing, am I wrong?


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Db9 #2100513 11/03/10 09:17 PM
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Don't forget to put the food down before leaving to hide behind the bushes to watch.

What's her favorite brand?


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