Wow. I am thinking my 3 months of NC is coming up because as soon as the house transaction is over then she will have to dig deep for an excuse to contact me and after some of the stuff she has spouted I will not contact her. She told me she wanted to be left alone which is exactly what will happen.
Strange thing about reading some of this stuff is I always think well she is different, more determined etc and she would never come back but then I see her actions and they are identical to what a lot of people on this forum have seen.
My problem is I dont know if i could take her back or if she has burnt one bridge to many. Am i better off just writing her off and starting new. Not expecting anyone to answer that and it's just something time will tell. Right now i am just trying to understand what happened. The reasons she has given so far are BS. Unfortunately the ONLY person that really knows is not talking and maybe never will.
