Should I Tell Her To Move Back.....?

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Cd,
it has been a long time.

You have given me plenty to think about too.


As for validating her feelings, in my reply email to her I posted the story written here about the WAW.
I started off by letting her know,I know how she felt. That I read the story 100's of times and for to let me know if I was wrong. I understood why she did what she did and I have forgiven her a long time ago.

From her response, I know I need to take the lead. In fact I wanted to do it a month ago but thought that me asking her about the book would be pursuing.
Turns out my gut feeling was right, I should have led back then.

That's why I asked her if she was ready to talk.

I will set a tiem this weekend. You're right about not focusing on the past. What's done is done. I pointed this out to her many of times and I know she will try to bring it up again when we talk. I am prepared to handle it.

Another point I need to discuss with her is her friendship with her GF.
This is a breaking point with me. She needs to decide who she wants in her life, me or her.
I can't be in W's life if she has her friend in hers.

Should this be discussed this weekend?
It really is one of the major boundaries for me.