Are you married to my wife too? I get the exact same reaming on a frequent basis: The Why-Are-You-A-Fking-Horny-Bastard-You-Beast lecture.
I think it really stems from a denial of our nature, people that are insecure craft all sorts of complex philosophies to mask their true insecurities and build a pedestal from which to "safely" hide from the confrontation of accepting certain human needs that have been built into us from day 1.
I am very respectful of women and believe they deserve the same rights. But I also am a horny dog that loves women because they are lovely and my maleness won't let me ignore that magnetic attraction. Many of us are not respectful of woman all the time but I think it goes both ways. I also think that there is a certain bitterness to feminism that is unproductive and counternatural. It wouldn't offend me if my wife saw some young stud in a Victorio's Secreto commercial and said "hmmmm, what a hunk". What does offend me is when I reach over to tenderly touch her and kiss her and she backs up like I am the devil trying to steal her soul. I just want to share it and I'll share mine in return.
To quote LL: BAHHHHHHH!!!
Hope I haven't offended too many, I'm jsut pissed today.
Ha! I just ready Cathy's post and realized she already said this. Go Honey C!
