I went back and read my first post last night and its kind of amazing how much my feelings have changed in that time. Looking back I am so thankful that I never was melty begging man I can look back at B-day and the 2 weeks I remained in my house with pride, being a melty man would not have changed one thing. When I came here I was 3 1/2 months deep in a divorce I knew it was over but still clinged to hope that one day we could reconcile. OM # 2 - 7 changed my outlook pretty quick. Its funny when I got here she had ended the A with OM#1 and it looked like she was calming down, boy was I wrong she was just taking a breather.
One thing is for sure once a cheater always a cheater. OM#7 is posting his love pictures all over facebook they all hugging and happy and posed like an engagement picture, D-10 told me last night that OM#2 was back hanging around the house last night. I worry that if she gets custody she will move my kids to the Dallas area where OM#7 lives. The reality of this is very small for several reasons number one being STBEX works for her parents and makes 3 times as much money as she could anywhere else, OM#7 will be dumped pretty soon if she follows her recent track record. I know the chances of her moving are not logical but it still worries me.
M40, W 37 M 11 1/2 y T 13 y D filed 5-18-10 S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10 Counter sued for d 6-16-10 OM2 discovered 8-10-10 OM3, OM4 4 kids 10, 7, & 3 D date 10-14-10 http://tiny.cc/mxzct