I've said those exact words to her. She always dismisses the idea as too expensive/impractical.
"Well if your decision changes let me know how I can support you."
She brings it up again. "Mercy woman you must really want to get those bubbies the way you want them. What's holding you back from taking care of business?"
Mrs PH: --- - ---- -----..---.--- ..----..
PH: Really that's why. What would it take for you to feel comfortable with _--.- ..---- ?
Don't fix it or talk her out of it.
next time the house comes up - turn into the skid.
PH: "you really think we should sell the house don't you? why do you feel that way?"
it won't make sense to you. why would a woman who is so concerned about our finances want to get a bubbie job/sell the house when that will only hurt our financial situation? it's not logic it's how she feels, her feelings can and will change. she doesn't want you to fix her feelings, understand it for what it is - her feelings which are important to her and the key to her heart.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
