Where do you go? You have to follow through on things. If she is not going to be transparent, then there is still something going on, or she is still hiding something. Get transparency, or quit making idle threats. You can not continue to threaten divorce, and not have any action. You are just showing her how easy it is for her to manipulate you. She cries, you fold.
DB to WAW: "W, I will not live in an open marriage, and I will not share my W. If you are going to be involved with OM, then you need to move out of the house. I will take care of the children. This is not negotiable. If you do not stop your A immediately, cut all contact off from OM, and establish an open transparent relationship with me, then I will go file for D today as I have stated in the past. Again, this is not negotiable."
