I really was going to file Monday and i think she new i was that is why she was all boo hoo on Sunday and told me she was not going to the bar anymore. In all honsety i wish she would not have done or said anything to me on Sunday because i was going to file, i had enough. Now i am confused as what to do next, is she making an effort to work on the relationship or just distancing herself from her bad behavior so the court will not give me temp custoday of the kids and house. Yes I believe it was an EA no matter what she tells me, i have told her when you treat me different and you are talking secretly to OM that is emotional. Please advise where do i go from here