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am scared shitless of the next step and missing a sign that destroys all of the progress


Why? You didn't have an affair? The burden for building a better marriage isn't completely yours alone. That's the point of proceeding with caution.

If you let your ego drive you all of the time, then you care more about how you really feel than how she really feels.

Give it some time. Let her show you how she really feels. She can't do that in a day or a week.

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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