Took a break for awhile to let the last communication from W sink in. I did reply to her email. In it I validated her feelings to start. I then proceeded to express my feelings and take on the whole situation. I ended with me stating I invisioned a great R between us in the future and that it will take hard work to accomplish it. I also said I know the direction we need to take if WE decide to work on M. I express what I wanted in a R and ended it by asking her "What do you want'?
I dropped the kids off this morning and after they went in I asked my W if she was ready to talk. She responded "I guess so". I replied back 'Is that a yes or a no'? She said "yes, call me to set up a time to meet."
So this I plan to meet this weekend to discuss many issues with her. I know I need to listen first. I do have much to tell her too.
Ironicly today is our anniversary.
Should boundaries be set at the meeting?
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."