I believe your wife has an affair. Whether it is a PA or an EA is irrelevant. It matters to husbands but as far as I am concerned an EA is the most dangerous one for us women.
Your threats about filing sound...silly to me. And I am being nice to you right now. I would have no respect for a man that constantly threatens to divorce that I could manipulate with a few tears. Man up!
Your wife has been spending time with a group of people/women that are not friends of your marriage.
You have been letting her do her own thing with APSOLUTELY NO CONSEQUENCES. You are becoming a doormat because of fear.
You are hurting your kids. You have NO excuse about what you did.
You are ruining your chances to save your marriage.
Read other people's threads and learn. Your story is very common. Stay calm. This is time for your brain to take over, not your emotions. She is still attached to you. Use the time wisely. Good luck K
