He would be WISE to have a SERIOUS talk with her and get down to the bottom of HOW SHE REALLY REALLY FEELS about it
"Have you ever thought about having it done? I would be fine with whatever you feel is best for you."
Doesn't mean she'll do it. It's how she feels right now, she wants to feel supported to choose what she wants. Don't try to talk her out of it let her decide. Turn into the skid.
I've said those exact words to her. She always dismisses the idea as too expensive/impractical.
