H is pushing me to make the decision-drawing me into chat re what I want in S.
I can really live like this in limbo for quite a while as there is less tension.
My solicitor is not-I think-going to push me to move to court just yet.
So I have time.
So, should I let him keep pushing?
I`m ok, the kids are ok. Ha! I could start a whole thread about the fun I am having! Really I`ve never been happier. H reminded me that I said that-love my job, the kids, have lots of friends, hobbies, am taking care of me.
And have begun to learn more about my own crap and how to deal with it.
Biggest change;finally getting the whole God business.
But, since I started the legal bit should I go for it-or just let him pursue it.
Let him tell the kids?
Let him decide when/if/how to move?
And tell him that I have decided to do that?
Cat,you`ve got mail. And no, for once, I`m not whining in it!
