From a woman's perspective, Grit is right. She's just looking for reassurance that you are still right where she left you. Here's a suggestion for your own peace of mind. TURN OFF THE PHONE. People lived for centuries without those little annoying gadgets, and I'm sure you can get by a short period of time, as well.
The more you are able to detach from her and the sitch, the calmer and more sane you will feel.
Trivia question: Do you think Jack the Ripper was in MLC, or his wife?
