CM Are you ok with moving on with your life now that this is all over?
Have you considered getting some professional counselling/therapy for yourself to deal with this phase of letting go? You still seem very much attached to your ex wife even though she is now married to another man, you still call her your wife.
Hi robex
Thanks for your comments - I'm doing a divorce care course at the moment and have been through an extensive self discovery process with a counsellor...
I'm unsure what to call her exactly I guess - partly due to standing for my marrige for so long AND "ex" just sounds like a swear word (much like the word "divorce" does), ha ha ha
...and for the sake of this forum I can't call her by her real name which would have been my default choice
As I said, I don't think she would fit in with my new life anyway as it's quite different to what she knew and I do enjoy what I do now (the dancing) so much that whom ever decides to join me on this path would have to accept - it's been my refuge during this entire process!
