Now he actually wants me to write down a list of all the reasons I dont like her. I told him to write down the reasons he does like her. I started the list (up to 19 so far) but not sure if i'll give it to him as whenever I write things down he runs them right to her.
Are you frickin kidding me? It's not about liking her or not liking her, it's that she is the OW in your marriage.
And you are actually making a list but you are scared to give it to him in case he runs to her? Good Lord - let him run.
What is this man thinking?!?!
Forget about him, what are YOU thinking to let this sorry excuse for a man back in your house?
I picked up divorce papers today. I cant handle this BS anymore and I'm not sure at this point if I want to be with him as I dont see him ever growing up and becoming responsible.
Good Lord - let him run. 
