I don't know if I can do that" I thought for a moment and then said "what do you want to do". He said "I want to move out next week." I said that's fine then, we will do that. Was this the right way to repsond or should I have had him wait until Thanksgiving?
Perfect.
The soooner reality hits with him the better. With him gone, i think you can focus on what you have to do regarding dbing. Being strong like you have been is fantastic. What is there to be gained by staying longer . Just misery.