You need to get wise and LEARN to how to mind read your wife. The men on this site have taken this "mind reading" and turned it around into something that is HURTING other men...
WISE men learn when and how to mind read their women..
If you want a happy relationship with your woman, you had better learn FAST when and how to read her mind. Women give HINTS. They don't always come out and tell you point blank. If you are a man on this site and haven't had your woman give you hints, then you are lying.
I don't even know her and I can read what she means by her "boob" comments..
You need to get wise and LEARN to how to mind read your wife. The men on this site have taken this "mind reading" and turned it around into something that is HURTING other men...
WISE men learn when and how to mind read their women..
If you want a happy relationship with your woman, you had better learn FAST when and how to read her mind. Women give HINTS. They don't always come out and tell you point blank. If you are a man on this site and haven't had your woman give you hints, then you are lying.
I don't even know her and I can read what she means by her "boob" comments..
My W mentioned that one time a long time ago. It may even have been on our honeymoon. I said that she didn't need to do that, that it didn't matter to me how big her boobs were and she said "seems like it does." I wasn't even sure why she said that because my history, according to one of my best friends, is to be attracted to "skinny blonde chicks with no tits!" Maybe I should have bought her new boobs back then? We really couldn't afford it at the time.
Now she complains about all the loose skin she has from losing so much weight and that her boob are now just flaps of skin. At least that is what D tells me she says.
So greek says no, gucci says yes........which is it really?
NEVER underestimate something a woman is saying about her looks and body and what it means to her...
The man who underestimates what his woman feels about these things is the man or men who are on this site...
A WISE man learns to mind read his woman. The wise man learns when and how to read her mind.. The wise man knows that most times a women speaks in "womanese" and doesn't say things in a point blank way the way he does.. Women drop "hints" and want you to pick up on those hints. The wise man learns how to decipher those hints..
BECOME a wise man.. It will pay off many times over..
This means MUCH MORE to Pins wife than many here are observing. What is important to one woman (such as boobs) doesn't mean it is important to another woman who could care less about having new boobs. That still doesn't mean that you take the one who wants new boobs lightly and sluff it off. If you do, you are doing nothing but looking for problems.
Pin has admitted that she has mentioned this before... He would be WISE to have a SERIOUS talk with her and get down to the bottom of HOW SHE REALLY REALLY FEELS about it. The wise man would find out her true feelings about this and not be guessing. Better to know the truth and to sluff it off. Burying your head in the sand just because YOU don't want her to have new boobs means squat to her deep down inside.
My W mentioned that one time a long time ago. It may even have been on our honeymoon. I said that she didn't need to do that, that it didn't matter to me how big her boobs
MISTAKE...
Correct response...
"Oh honey, how do you feel about getting a boob job? Is that something you would consider doing or would like to do?"
I find it interesting that many of the men on here sound like they are more worried about how THEY feel about their wives or women getting boobs than to actually really look at it from how SHE really feels deep down inside. I don't see many of the women "asking" what their men think. It seem more that the women are stating how THEY feel and think and it is going right over the man's head. (certainly no surprise to me.. DAM)
You need to get wise and LEARN to how to mind read your wife. The men on this site have taken this "mind reading" and turned it around into something that is HURTING other men...
WISE men learn when and how to mind read their women..
If you want a happy relationship with your woman, you had better learn FAST when and how to read her mind. Women give HINTS. They don't always come out and tell you point blank. If you are a man on this site and haven't had your woman give you hints, then you are lying.
I don't even know her and I can read what she means by her "boob" comments..
Gucci,
I know this is her fantasy. It's something she mentions all the time. I'm not thick, I get her hints. She also knows that we can't afford them now, and even if we weren't in debt she wouldn't want to spend the money. It's just a fantasy, as you said. She's said that the only way she'd get them is if we won the lottery.
Now what do you do with that? Do you sit and encourage her to dwell on a fantasy that she can't attain? This isn't like a woman who wants a rose garden.
